Say goodbye in your own way. This may include offering
words of love, forgiveness or gratitude; quietly holding
their hand or talking about meaningful or cherished
memories.
It may be helpful to connect out-of-town friends and
family with your loved one by telephone or video call, so
that they can say their goodbyes.
Rituals can be meaningful at this time. If you are seeking
support for a ritual for the dying process, your pastor or a
hospital chaplain can be a good resource.
Let your loved one know that you'll miss them, but you'll be
OK.
Tears are a natural part of saying goodbye. There is no
need to hide them or apologize for them. Tears are normal
expressions of grief and love.
9
Saying goodbye
It is difficult to let go of someone you love. A dying person
sometimes lingers, even at the risk of discomfort, if they feel
their family is not prepared to let go.
You can reassure your loved one by giving them permission to
go when they are ready and letting them know that you have
the strength to carry on.
