5
Surroundings
A peaceful environment can
bring comfort to a loved one
in their last days.
If they prefer solitude,
create a quiet room with
warm lighting, soft music
and photographs of family and friends.
If your loved one enjoys the bustle of family, encourage
relatives to gather and children to visit.
Household pets have been known to stay close to the
person who is dying. If they do not cause physical
discomfort, pets can provide a calm support.
If your loved one is in the hospital, ask their nurse what
changes can be made to the room to make it more
peaceful and comfortable.
Withdrawal
As your loved one's strength decreases, they will likely show
less interest in activities, surroundings or people. They will
likely limit interactions to just a few visitors. Know that your
loved one may stop speaking in the final days.
This is common in the dying process as is the beginning of
letting go. It's natural for you to feel sad or even rejected if
this happens. If you are a close family member or friend, your
presence will continue to communicate your love and care.
Because hearing remains until the end, speak in a calm,
normal tone and know that you will be heard. If your loved one
is sleeping, do not try to awaken them. Gentle touch becomes
important now.
