Comforting the body
Changes in appetite
The person who is dying will gradually stop eating or drinking.
We often offer food as an expression of love and concern;
however, it is normal in the dying process for your loved one
to stop experiencing hunger or thirst. In fact, eating and
drinking can cause physical discomfort during the last days.
Temperature and skin changes
The person's skin, especially on the hands, legs and feet, may
become increasingly cool to touch and may appear darker or
blotchy. Their brain may send confusing messages to the
body, causing the person to feel hot or cold.
Respect your loved one's decision; do not try to force food
or drink.
If they are still eating, prepare their favorite foods.
If they wish, give them sips of fluid or ice chips or gently
swab their mouth.
Add or remove blankets as needed.
If they are perspiring, place a cool washcloth on their
forehead.
Lips, hands and feet may be bluish in color.
Fevers can be treated with
medications and cooling measures.
Confusion and restlessness
It's possible that your loved one will
become confused, restless or agitated.
This may be caused by several factors,
including anxiety or discomfort.
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